5. If you get your chance as the person with authority, try to change others’ perspective by NOT DOING the things that WAS bestowed upon you by your past bosses. If your former boss is a pain in the a**, leave him be, create your own strategy on how to win constituents without having to BOSS them around. 

4. If others try to ostracize you because you’re different… try to make them see that what makes you different… makes you beautiful (naks! parang kanta). REALLY, if you failed in this endeavor… think of it this way… PREJUDICE-driven people like them is not worth all the worries in the world.

3. The point in labeling someone is ENVY. And when cruel people set their sights on the likes of you… BE TOUGH… TAKE THE HEAT… after all, you know who you really are… I KNOW WHO YOU ARE… and when the time comes that you feel like you don’t know who you are anymore… ring me up and the rest of the 845 Girls… We’ll hunt down the bitches that made your life miserable… A good girl like you may leave it to KARMA… but you know US right? We go for an EYE FOR AN EYE! So who are they?

2. The first step to success is be able to know what you want. And if you don’t stand up for your RIGHT… and 845 girls are too busy with their so-called work. Who will stand up for you? You have to be able to PUT UP A FIGHT for what you believe in. Everyone seem to not listen… how will you know that they share your thoughts if all of you are too afraid to say anything… You said it yourself "might"… that would mean 50-50 chance of getting approval… I’d risk it if I were you.

1. If others are hurt because you try to follow your instincts or your heart… Then let them! It is a foregone conclusion that you cannot please everybody… you try to do this… others might react… you go the other way… they still react… it ends up you having this notion that what you want is what they want… STICK TO WHAT YOU WANT… and disregard what OTHERS WANT. In that way, if others are totally oppose to your decision, it’s their prerogative… and your prerogative is to LIMIT THEIR INFLUENCE and go for what makes you HAPPY. Because in the END… that people who are open-minded as you are will realize the genius of it and start following your lead…

Ok? I’m reading everybit of words and meanings in all your posts… And may I tell you that you are starting to get better and better…? I guess I’m a good teacher. The good thing about blogs is that… you are able to pour your heart out to those people who are willing to read a piece of you…